lunes, 24 de diciembre de 2007

Highs and Lows, Ups and Downs

At the moment I am at a slight down, haha. It´s Christmas Eve and Matt is supposed to be here in Granada with me and instead he is stuck in Madrid. The flight he was booked for between Granada and Madrid was yesterday and he was not even in Europe yet, so now he is stuck in Madrid until tomorrow. Frustrating, but at least he can get a flight tomorrow and the airline is paying for his hotel. I had a brief moment of freaking out but I got over it and now I am anxious all over again, so from a very low to a medium.

Besides this there has been a lot going on for me. I finished school a little over a week ago and my last week I got a nice slap in the face. My last day of class was Thursday and on Tuesday my school presented me with a bill for 520€ to sleep at my señora´s place for TWO nights in December and to leave my things there. This did not settle well with me seeing that they wanted me to pay more than $700 for essentially two nights of sleep and food. They told me that since my things will be there it is like I am there and the room is not usable, oh please. If she wanted to use the room with my things there, it would not have been a big deal to me. I thought that Paqui would also find this silly, haha, wrong. I told her about it and I did not get the reaction I had predicted. Since only days before she was telling me how I am like her daughter, and that she was worried about what Matt and I would be doing for Christmas Eve so she wanted to have us over, blah, blah, I thought she would say well let´s you and I make some sort of deal. Well that did not happen. I immediately called my friend, Sergio, to see if I could bring my things to his place for the month and he kindly said yes. So I told me the school, lo siento, but that money is not going to you and Paqui and I had to pack ALL of my shit of and bring it to Sergio´s. Luckily I have not bought to many clothes so I was able to fit just about everything. I left some books at Paqui´s that she said she would store in the basement of the apartment. Anyway I guess I was disappointed to see the affect that money had on Paqui. I understand that she needs the money and in a way I understand that having my things there while I am not could be a nuisance and if I had my own apartment I would have to pay the rent. We have never had a problem but the last few days were not the same. I guess for me, I was the most upset when she said something along the lines that the school says that if I have the money to travel, I should have the money to pay to leave me things. I took this as she is a little mad about not getting the money and I was irritated because it´s not her place to discuss my bank account. A low point. Anyway I hope when I return things will be smoothed over.
Protest in front of the church in Milan


So now on to some happier news. Last Saturday I flew into Milan to start my Italy excursion. I had a full day there so I went to the duomo which was very cool and then I just wandered around. I got to see two manifestaciones. One was political and I think the basis is that Northern Italy wants to separate from Southern Italy, a little extreme if you ask me. But apparently the people from Milan and Rome do not get a long. The second one was a bunch of kids celebrating a football victory. Both were really entertaining.

Not the best picture, but I was alone so I could not ask for another from a stranger


From Milan, I took the train to Pisa. I wandered around there for a few hours, saw the tower and then caught the bus to Calcinia to find my relatives. I was nervous as hell the whole bus ride. I told the bus driver three times where I wanted to get off so he got the point. But I still had some crazy thoughts, like checking out places off the side of the road I could sleep if necessary. I made it to Calcinia, which is not very big, and went into a store to ask someone directions. He told me in Italian, but I got the point and headed in the correct direction. From there I realized that Ottavio´s (my relative) house number was not marked on the address my sister gave me so I went to a random house and asked. The woman that answered the door looked terrified of me, like I had fangs or something. But some other chick came down and attempted to point me to the correct house. I did not understand, so I went to another random house and rang the bell. The girl at this house was not very helpful, we talked through the speaker and I kept asking her if she knew Ottavio and she kept saying no thank you. Then she asked my age and where I was from, I was desperate so I answered hoping she would help me. We played this little game for a while because I decided to move on. I went back to another meat store and asked a very nice old woman to help me. She got the phone book out, called Ottavio´s wife (Loredana) and told her that she had an American visitor. About five minutes later another guy was in the store and he was taking me to their house. Of couse he was asking me all of these questions in Italian that I had really no answers to. It turns out he was Loredana´s brother. I got to the house and Loredana looked at me like I was crazy and could not believe that I was alone. I was a little nervous, but Ottavio came home about 5 minutes later and was excited to know that Cara Mia´s sister was at his home. So this was a very big high, goal achieved!
Downtown Calcinaia

The Rowing Team is named after my great grandfather Pete and this is the boat house


I spent three nights at Ottavio´s house in Calcinia and although communication was not 100% I still loved ever minute of it. They were so great to let me stay with them, and of course feed me some great Italian food. After my first night I wandered around the town then drove around with their son, Luca while he kind of worked. He runs a construction company that was started by Ottavio´s father and has been passed down. He knows a little bit of English so we communicated pretty good. We drove around to various places for his work and had a drink in every town we went to so that was fun. Although I don´t know any Italian, my Spanish was amazing helpful. I don´t know how I would have survived without it. I am not going to lie, I am kind of interested in learning Italian now and I have to take a class for my Spanish major anyway so we´ll see what happens. My second full day Ottavio took me to some of the Tuscan Hill Towns (Volterra and San Gimigano). I love the Tuscan Hills, they were amazing, tranquil and beautiful. It was nice to spend time with Ottavio. Although we don´t have the same language I feel like we developed a nice relationship, nice enough for him to invite me back with my Babo (Dad) and Mama. He showed me a lot of old pictures that were awesome and my great grandfather Pete´s journal which started in 1912. There is so much more to say but I have already wrote to much, bottom like an great high.

Ottavio & I in Volterra


From Calcinia I went back to Pisa and took the Train to Rome. Although I have been to Rome before I did not go in St. Peter´s cathedral and I really wanted to so that was kind of my purpose. I went and it was amazing, I have seen a lot of churches and this one is really something. Besides that I just wondered around Rome and took a bunch of pictures. I like Rome much better than my first time. Although it is still loud, dirty, and crowded, I guess I found a little peace there I did not before.

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